5 Fresh Date Night Ideas For Mom And Dad (Featured Guest Blogger)8:00 AM
So what inspired this post…well my oh so handsome hubby and I have been married for 2 years come this October 19! We have a beautiful 7 month old baby girl who we adore with all our hearts. Being a parent is such a joy and celebration every day! But we have tried every day to be very intentional at keeping our husband and wife relationship as a focus. It isn’t always easy because of the parent guilt that I am sure we all experience and it isn’t always affordable. Ya know, those dates nights out like you did before aren’t always ideal. Even if you have to pay a babysitter or not, the cost to go to dinner and a movie for two is a small fortune! So why not get creative and have a date night in every once and awhile too!?! These next few minutes of your time will not be wasted because I am going to throw some 5 fresh date night in ideas your way! In no particular order of importance…
#1 Guest Room Getaway with room service This idea my husband and I can now incorporate because we just moved into our first single family home and have a guest room. A guest room is a different room than you normally sleep in and we have tried to make ours an airy, rustic, and special space for family that visits because 99% of our family is out of town. So why wouldn’t we take advantage of the space from time to time. And to me, staying in a guest room is like a hotel (if you’ve done your room up right) so keep with the theme and order food in, so it feels like room service. How fun, right! No dishes, no fuss…just yummy food and some special one on one time with your honey! Here are some shots of our guest room charm we tried to incorporate for guests and ourselves! Keep in mind we moved in just a few weeks ago so we are still working on our reclaimed wood headboard - it will be a post on the blog soon! But we love our simple clean white bedding for our guestroom getaway. And it is all about the details - notice the shabby chic ladder as our towel and toiletry holder and WIFI password info! On the other side of the bed there is a vintage nightstand with bottled water and a yummy candle. All features we feel would be in a nice hotel so perfect for our guests...oh and the hubby and me on date nights in!
I understand not everyone has a guest or spare room so this idea isn’t totally all inclusive. But I have a solution! Take turns between you and your spouse making some element in your own bedroom special! Change up the bedspread or some décor in the room for a night, fill the room with candles and music, get in your jammies early and kick on some fun movie with yummy snacks! Essentially, just make it a special time in a special environment.
#2 Sushi, Wine, and Games This fun idea I stole from a lovely co-worker of mine who said her friend and her husband do this for a date night in and I thought it was fabulous! My husband and I love sushi and have good memories of date nights out at fun places in St. Louis but now not so much time for that! But what is doable is our local grocery store – it’s kind of fancy – and has great pre-made sushi daily! So why not pick up some of those yummy sushi trays (and pay 1/3 of the price), grab a bottle of our favorite wine and once the lil one is asleep…break it out! And don’t stop at the sushi and wine time – extend the quality of time with some fun board game or card game together! And for the non-sushi lovers, the point of this date idea is getting something special and gourmet you might go on a date to get but pick it up for the date night in! It can even be a favorite restaurant you pick up an order from…because you still save on the tip and drinks by taking it home!
#3 DIY Date Not every couple might love doing fun DIY stuff at all or even together, but if you are crazy like my husband and I…here is an idea for you! We all always have projects we need to be doing around the house. So mix it up and find a fun creative DIY project - whether you go antique shop for a piece to use or having something old at home you aren’t using. Make sure you both WANT to do it so it isn’t a chore. And then set aside a night with some pizza and yummy drinks – because you need nourishment of course – and then get the project going! Make sure you always do before and after pictures too! Always fun to see the transformation.
#4 Cooking Challenge This silly idea was born out of a time when my husband and I were watching the cooking competition show, Chopped. We were getting bored that night just sitting watching tv and we decided to take to the kitchen. If you have watched Chopped, they get random ingredients and are expected to make an appetizer, main course, and/or dessert. We decided to just do a dessert by picking 4 random ingredients – I think we used Rice Krispy treats, chocolate sauce, popcorn, and peanut butter. We each had 10 minutes in the kitchen in secret to do our prep/cooking. Then we exchanged our treats to see and taste our creations. It was so random and fun! My idea to elaborate on this would be to do 3 courses (appetizer, meal, and dessert) all as a Chopped challenge…sort of! So the wife chooses ingredients for an appetizer and her husband surprises her with a unique appetizer, the husband chooses ingredients for a dessert and his wife surprises him with a unique dessert, and then they collaborate and cook together based on a random selection of ingredients for the main meal. To help with ingredient combinations for all of the courses, see a couple suggestions of mine for each course below! * remember on Chopped and in your date version, you can use other ingredients in addition to the required…that helps make it a tad easier at times! Appetizer option #1 Bacon Honey Shrimp Red Pepper Flakes Appetizer option #2 Spinach Strawberries Fresh Jalapeños Candied Pecans Main Course option #1 Steak Poached egg Avacado French bread Hot Mustard Main Course option #2 Ramen noodles Mushrooms Cucumber Hot sauce Cashews Dessert option #2 Almonds Apples Chocolate Rum Dessert option #2 Oatmeal cream pie Raspberries Plain potato chips Whip cream
#5 Recreate a “First” Don’t we all reminisce on our firsts together as a couple! But with this date, go beyond the brief mention in passing from time to time…attempt to recreate some first in your relationship at home! A few example ideas from my husband and mine’s relationship firsts… For our first date, we went to a St. Louis Cardinals game and he spoiled me rotten with awesome seats! So to replicate that, we could plan to make hot dogs, nachos, buy some beer to drink out of plastic cups and watch a game together with our ball park cuisine! Obviously a wedding is a first, so you can intentionally set aside some wine and chill time some evening to look through all your wedding pictures and/or watch your wedding video! These photos are two of my favorite memories - our pre-wedding letter exchange and then our pre-reception photo shoot! Loved those wedding moments with just the two of us...and the photographer!
Honeymoon is another obvious first special moment together as a couple. No matter where you have been, you can find a way to recreate some portion of it! We went to Costa Rica so it is always fun to look through the photo album I made, maybe make some fun tropical drinks or wine to reminisce and find a fun moment in the photos to try and recreate in some way!
There are lots of more firsts in a relationship…so don’t be limited to these! Be creative and just enjoy the time alone reminiscing together! That about wraps it up! And notice all of these date night in ideas are in the evenings only…hence date “night”. It isn’t that kids wouldn’t be fun to share some of these times with…but it is so good to have just husband and wife time! So some of these might make for a later night, but it won’t hurt every now and then! What other ideas do you all have for fun and unique date night in ideas? And please don’t forget to pop by my blog to see more about my life and my tinkering ways at Relentless at Heart!